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Like does it take anything away from what you might have had if you waited untill you got married?
Like does it take anything away from what you might have had if you waited untill you got married?
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19 responses to Does pre-marital sex hurt your relationship?
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pre-marital sex tells you whether you are compatible, sexually…
you don’t want to waste your time marrying someone you don’t want to have sex with ever again…
i found that the pre-marital sex was great.. and hasn’t harmed my marriage…
also means there was no stress on the wedding night or honeymoon… 
Does pre-marital sex hurt your relationship?
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My wife and I had sex before we got married. I can’t think of any way that refraining from sex would have improved our relationship. We’ve been married for 22 years.
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Well, if you are with the right person, and think it is the right time, then no, it shouldn’t hurt your relationship.
And if all goes well, nothing changes really, except for the fact that you had sex, that’s all.
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it helps.. rather find out you’re not compatible in bed before you get married. trust me.
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In some religions, it is unacceptable. That said, If you wait until you are married there may very well come a time where you wonder what it is that you missed.
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actually no i could of never married my husband without knowing him sexually i don’t like surprises in that department and plus you can have more fun on your honeymoon and really enjoy it
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I think you need to check out their lovin’ style before you marry.Imagine your hubby totally ends up stinking in bed! You’re gonna spend all this time working on getting him to do it right.Unless you’re a virgin,you’d never know the difference! It takes nothing from it if you do it before,but that’s my opinion.Maybe I’m just a horny girl!
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Premarital sex IMMORAL and very SHAMEFUL
and its INJUSTICE
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A lot of people think so, especially religious people. So it depends on who you talk to. But I, myself would treat my fiance’ like any other purchase…such as a horse….I would never buy a horse that I have not rode on yet!! Nor would I buy a car that I haven’t driven!! What if you don’t like it….there is no way to get a refund..in marriage!! So it’s up to the individuals!!
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I don’t think it hurts a relationship at all. But it might cheapen the importance of marriage to some. I am all for it though!
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You wouldn’t buy a car without test driving it, right? Don’t sentence yourself to a life of bad sex!
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It does change the relationship – and if the relationship isn’t strong enough to eventually become a permanent or at least long-term commitment, it often brings those problems out. Plus, then you have to deal with additional regrets over things not working out. On the other hand, if a couple is mature and capable of communicating about it and prepared to deal with the consequences, it can foster affection and closeness just as it would if they were married.
So, no, I don’t think you can automatically say that it hurts the relationship. Besides, nobody gets to find out how things would have been different if they’d made the other decision.
Does pre-marital sex hurt your relationship?
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Pre-martial sex is fine unless he is extremely religious.
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Personally, I think premarital sex is important. I’m not saying go ahead and sleep with a boat load of people, but I am saying if you’re in love and thinking of getting married, it may be a good idea to sleep with that person.
I’ve been with people before who I thought I was going to spend my life with. We had sex, and we were just completely incompatible. Now, sex isn’t everything; I know this. However, a poor sexual relationship really does negatively affect your relationship over all.
Good luck.
Does pre-marital sex hurt your relationship?
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For me…I believe it does.
Me and my husband had pre marital sex and I so wish that we didn’t. Things would have been a whole lot different.
Then when you get married there will be nothing left to explore of each other. you have so much time to learn all the other things of each other. Leave the sex for marriage and learn to know one another all over again in a total new way.
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I think it can in some instances based on my own marriage. We were a twice a day kind of couple that our friends referred to once as “a pair of horny squirrels dashing off to the woods”. I was the only guy to ever make her finish and sex was awesome. Now we rarely have sex and when we do it’s pretty boring for me and I assume its the same for her or we’d do it more often. I guess you can become numb to anything if you do it enough.
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If I hadn’t had pre-marital sex, I would’ve married my first boyfriend when I was 17 because I was so horny. And he would have been wrong for me. Thank god I don’t have to wait for marriage to have sex, and now I am with the right man! If I had waited to have sex with this man until we got married, we wouldn’t be in a relationship. We’d be so sexually frustrated and in terrible moods all the time that we’d start petty arguments over nothing, constantly. We’d probably start to go crazy if we couldn’t be intimate. And that would actually ruin our relationship. Sex clears the mind. Being insanely horny leads people to do ANYTHING to get that intimacy. INCLUDING a marriage that hasn’t really been thought through.
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I really don’t think that it does. You’ve found this person and fallen in love with them and you’re both in a learning process. So you’re learning together and with each other.
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It didn´t mine.
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