AdeOluwa Adenaike asked:
Have you ever being to the bank to get a pepper? How does that sound? Is it not interesting to know if some people do that when they are hungry? I guess the hunger become so bad that they are no longer conscious of their right mind. What am I saying? That is what we do when we are in wait for a life partner. Don’t go to wrong places to get one. And don’t be evil to get an innocent lady from a good background when you know you are wicked and don’t care about changing your way of life. There is always a pay day. Please don’t hurt people by playing over their emotions to later suffer them. Don’t join the bandwagon because you are sure you can find guys or girls there that will easily be ‘seduced’ and that are ‘sexy’. It will take only a few weeks, months after marriage to get the dust off your face. I have seen people with such a challenge.
At the seeking stage, about 5% seem to know what they want. Many judge it by “I am praying and hope it works out”. It’s not based on any principle or character. At one time, it seems they know what they want just because they are looking from the angle of a guy or girl that caught their attention. At such time, that gal or guy becomes the perfect picture. The next moment, may be that did not really work out, they aim at another goal-never having purpose; but sure they have not achieved it. Oftentimes, this makes people end up in wrong relationships.
What do you want in a guy or a lady? Many who just want a lover in the context of sex have missed it right from the beginning. This is because marriage is over 80% more than sex. If you only focus on less than 5-20% of your time, how can you make a great marriage?
Some people feel some kind of pressure at this stage. But you need to know that it won’t do much help to forgo your values to just get a partner because you may have to loose them forever, and this may not be apparent until a few months or years into the relationship.
For those who want a peaceful and modest relationship, it is advisable to stare clear of pornographies. You act on your mind. Porn creates a false picture which may harm your silent thought long after you’re married. You may never be satisfied with a partner. Beware. What you watch, listen to, friends you follow or talk with, the manner of communication you engage in – all play a role as you wait for MR. RIGHT. Using capital letter is a sign or respect for you if you succeed in getting just that, and it is not as difficult. People usually miss it because they look in the wrong way and often judge by material possessions.
There are endless list of artiste who have broken marriages and many who keep polygamy; not because they planned it so from the beginning but because they missed it and in order to correct it get into more mess. Have you ever considered why this happens? Some started with good intention with a straight eye. But the passion and romance involved was irresistible. At lonely locations with the crew and with many pairing up, they begin to allow false imagination appear real. Body chemistry overcomes their right sense of judgment and all they begin to see and say is: ‘the guy is good, quite nice. I just love him. He’s quite handsome and loveable. That’s all, I just love him’. And the deal is struck. Six month to two or four years later, their breakup makes the tabloid. Your will not be like that.
A Proverb says, “Warn the apprentice hunter not to follow the stream path to avoid sudden attack by a lion-Remind him: obedience is better that sacrifice.”
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Have you ever being to the bank to get a pepper? How does that sound? Is it not interesting to know if some people do that when they are hungry? I guess the hunger become so bad that they are no longer conscious of their right mind. What am I saying? That is what we do when we are in wait for a life partner. Don’t go to wrong places to get one. And don’t be evil to get an innocent lady from a good background when you know you are wicked and don’t care about changing your way of life. There is always a pay day. Please don’t hurt people by playing over their emotions to later suffer them. Don’t join the bandwagon because you are sure you can find guys or girls there that will easily be ‘seduced’ and that are ‘sexy’. It will take only a few weeks, months after marriage to get the dust off your face. I have seen people with such a challenge.
At the seeking stage, about 5% seem to know what they want. Many judge it by “I am praying and hope it works out”. It’s not based on any principle or character. At one time, it seems they know what they want just because they are looking from the angle of a guy or girl that caught their attention. At such time, that gal or guy becomes the perfect picture. The next moment, may be that did not really work out, they aim at another goal-never having purpose; but sure they have not achieved it. Oftentimes, this makes people end up in wrong relationships.
What do you want in a guy or a lady? Many who just want a lover in the context of sex have missed it right from the beginning. This is because marriage is over 80% more than sex. If you only focus on less than 5-20% of your time, how can you make a great marriage?
Some people feel some kind of pressure at this stage. But you need to know that it won’t do much help to forgo your values to just get a partner because you may have to loose them forever, and this may not be apparent until a few months or years into the relationship.
For those who want a peaceful and modest relationship, it is advisable to stare clear of pornographies. You act on your mind. Porn creates a false picture which may harm your silent thought long after you’re married. You may never be satisfied with a partner. Beware. What you watch, listen to, friends you follow or talk with, the manner of communication you engage in – all play a role as you wait for MR. RIGHT. Using capital letter is a sign or respect for you if you succeed in getting just that, and it is not as difficult. People usually miss it because they look in the wrong way and often judge by material possessions.
There are endless list of artiste who have broken marriages and many who keep polygamy; not because they planned it so from the beginning but because they missed it and in order to correct it get into more mess. Have you ever considered why this happens? Some started with good intention with a straight eye. But the passion and romance involved was irresistible. At lonely locations with the crew and with many pairing up, they begin to allow false imagination appear real. Body chemistry overcomes their right sense of judgment and all they begin to see and say is: ‘the guy is good, quite nice. I just love him. He’s quite handsome and loveable. That’s all, I just love him’. And the deal is struck. Six month to two or four years later, their breakup makes the tabloid. Your will not be like that.
A Proverb says, “Warn the apprentice hunter not to follow the stream path to avoid sudden attack by a lion-Remind him: obedience is better that sacrifice.”
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